Sunday, October 30, 2016

Wednesday, June 15, 2011

Prolonging Sex For Men

You do not have to buy anything here, but some of the guys statements are very true about female orgasm. Naturally, he would want to sell his product and might be full of it, lol, but he does have some noteworthy points. This probably leads to my article called "Edging" which, you can search in this blog... It is a form of tantric sex that is key to making your woman not ever want to leave you ! The guy who has authored the audio about Supermanstamina.com is Keni Styles, a British Porn Star. Born in Thailand to a sex worker, he ended up in an orphanage there. Later, his mother took him to the UK, where he served in the British Army before getting into the porn industry.
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Thursday, April 14, 2011

PROLONGED MALE ORGASMS

You do not have to buy anything, but if you hear Alex Allman's video here, you will get some sweet info regarding prolonged male orgasm
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Wednesday, January 26, 2011

Monogamy Blues

This article really addresses serious communicative issues that couples need to discuss prior to making a commitment:
CLICK HERE TO HEAR WHAT THEY SAY ABOUT MONOGAMY

Wednesday, December 15, 2010

Female Ejaculation Question

If you click the link below for Alex's website, you will get his free newsletter. He also sells some very informative stuff.

RE: FEMALE EJACULATION
On some products sold online that say ALL WOMEN CAN BE MADE TO SQUIRT, I dispute that ALL of them can, and  I also think it is unfair to those who find out that they can't . They very likely might end up feeling pressured from their mate to squirt. Often the mate was looking at the unrealistic expectations made by porn with alot of trick edits and the like.
But the surrender and climax is always SO much more important than squirting.  I do believe alot of women WILL be able to squirt upon these readings and it is such an intense orgasm,  so I hope that they can.  Find YOUR spot, by YOURSELF....... use rabbits, Hitachis, and whatnot to stimulate, and listen for a smacking sound when you  fingerbang fastly and rub your clit....This is indicative of the possibility that you can squirt.   Also, if you already puddle, it is often indicative that you are a squirter. Remember, squirting is a different kind of feeling, but if you go past level 2 orgasm, that the intensity can be just as great....... to you and to your partner....GOOD LUCK

From Alex of Revolutionarysex.com 's newsletter:

THE ALLMAN REPORT
Question About Female Ejaculation

***QUESTION***
I'm a woman who has discovered something that I didn't know could happen. I was in the midst of intercourse and all of a sudden liquid started to squirt from me by the cup full it seems. I was so embarrassed. I thought I was urinating on him, so I started to cry. My partner appeared to be in shock. He expressed that he heard of squirting but he never experienced it. I was previously married, but never experienced anything close to that with my ex husband or my other 2 sex partners. Is this something he can only make me do? Is it a special chemistry? Is squirting okay?
>>>MY REPLY:
Oh yes, the first time you experience a huge release like that it can be shocking to say the least! I'm so glad that you partner had heard about female ejaculation and that he was able to reassure you that it is TOTALLY OKAY. In the past there has been so much misunderstanding about the subject, and so many women, like you, have been humiliated and thought they were doing something "wrong" or that they had gotten so lost in pleasure that they had peed on themselves and their partner... and wow wouldn't THAT be embarrassing!There was a time, not so very long ago, when a woman like you-- a woman capable of massive levels of sexual pleasure-- might have been so humiliated by an event like that, that she forever after held back when she was having sex... She would never let herself experience that kind of pleasure again for fear of embarrassing herself again... Some women probably never even allowed themselves to ever orgasm at all after an experience like that and became completely repressed and psychologically and emotionally broken. And, of course, some Other women would have continued to experience pleasure by themselves,
masturbating... but NEVER again with her husband who rejected her after her "accident"... and so she would be depriving BOTH of them of the beauty and the intimacy of shared sexual passion. And I'm not talking about during the Victorian days... I mean like even just a few years ago before anyone was talking about female ejaculation. Ouch. But the simple fact is, while very few women spontaneously experience "squirting," those that do USUALLY assume that they were having such an intense orgasm that they simply lost control of their bladder and peed. And it's easy to understand why--
Female ejaculation comes out of the urethra, not the vagina. And it is thin and water-like...not like the normal lubricating fluid that comes from the vagina...However, rest assured: Chemical analysis has shown that it is NOT pee. If you'd care to prove it to yourself, here's an experiment that you can do at home-- Eat a bunch of asparagus-- you'll notice that asparagus gives the urine a very particular smell... and you'll notice virtually none of that smell when you "squirt" during orgasm... even when it comes out by the "cup full".
The female ejaculation comes from a small group of glands that sit behind the g-spot in the vagina called the "intra-urethral glands" and they are, basically, a female version of the prostate.
So I hope that answers your question as to whether squirting is "okay".

As for your other questions...
Is it something that only he can make you do? No, it is something that YOU make you do. It is something that every woman is capable of...though not all women will expel that much liquid, but it requires a HUGE amount of sexual surrender to make it happen. And so that is why you never experienced it with any other lover. This was the man who was able to take you to that kind of place of surrender. Some women can only do it alone, some only with the right partner, but in all cases, it is a special place of sexual trust. You are VERY lucky to have found a partner that can coax that kind of trust and surrender from you, and I hope that you both honor the relationship accordingly. Because, yes, it is very "special chemistry" that allowed it to happen for you two. It takes a lot of trust and powerful feelings of sexual acceptance to surrender that deeply into pleasure.
I'd like to stress again for others reading this Newsletter that every woman is capable of having this experience. And while there have been many books that describe the step-by-step techniques for getting there (including my own... I wrote an entire chapter on the subject), the fact is, all the techniques in the world won't make it happen without learning the emotional art of getting your partner to sexually surrender to you.
If you can learn that, then you'll find that many times, a woman can and will experience her first ejaculation without any special techniques at all.
I'll be talking a lot more about this subject in future Newsletters, so keep watching your in-box.
For Passion,
Alex
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Wednesday, October 20, 2010

Easiest Sex Tip You Will Ever Learn

THEORY OF MIND VS BODY / TYPICAL DIFFERENCES OF THE MALE AND FEMALE SEX PARTNER:

MEN'S SEX ORGAN = Cock, ATTENTION SPAN: 5-15 minutes, LOGISTICS: straight up, then down.... mind in Uranus = somewhat ANAL at times, wants to be in charge, also wants to be focused/rational

WOMEN'S SEX ORGAN = Mind, ATTENTION SPAN: Often forever, LOGISTICS: all over the charts.... mind in Venus = wanting love/attention, emotional, multi-focused or seemingly irrational

Here's where you put the theory to daily living. If you put the 2 formulas above together and get sexually creative, you can understand and value your partner alot more than you ever have. Remember, unhappy women make unhappy households and men are often much easier to please sexually. So remember guys, make her feel special, even if she does go all over the charts! Alot of women never get to achieve higher levels of orgasm. You can help her. Taking your partner to the next level of mental and body climax is not that difficult. Just ask and listen!

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Thursday, September 9, 2010

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Give The Best Oral Sex To Your Man

While alot of women don't mind giving oral, some fade out on doing it for many reasons. For one, be vocal and moan about how much you like it. Keep in mind that if you are great at pleasing her, she might just reciprocate by giving you more oral.
Here is some tips that many women already know, but which might be able to help.
First off, "Men, relax and just stay still!" Especially if your woman is not used to giving much oral. Let her learn not to gag. At least not yet!
Ok, ladies, pretend your mouth is hungry and ready to ravage his world.
Alittle drool as you suck is always nice, as most men like it a bit nasty. "Always a lady outside of the house and a whore in bed". At this you will have ruined him for anyone else.
Experiment with hand around, then have your head up and down in like a circular or nodding-like movement. Do it wild and look up at him, they love this! Ofcourse, no teeth, unless you're mad at him......he-he, just kidding!
You can also numb your throat with a throat-numbing lozenger or products made just for this. These products might in turn delay his climax, which would be your goal if you really want more sex afterwards. This lozenger can help you with relaxing your throat and controlling your gag reflex. Going down further is not something I can tell you how to do as it is NOT for everyone. But, in time, you can learn to deep-throat, if you wish. Really, the most sensitivity is closer to the tip to 1/2 of their shaft, so not a big deal. You can put a strong vibrator under your bottom lip to make vibration as you suck as well as moaning to vibrate your mouth.
Alot of men have this thing about you swallowing his cum. If, for some reason, his cum is really bitter, like an aspirin, just swallow a little bit and drool some of the rest. Hopefully for you, he will be salty or sweet, not bitter. And you can smear it on your face. He might like this but you might say ewww!! Supposedly alot of people say semen is good for preventing wrinkles and acne. The good news is that it is LOVE JUICE!!!!! A product of LIFE........... so enjoy it. If you do not enjoy oral, you can just pretend. Our secret, because so many women have done this for years.....lol...............

Wednesday, August 11, 2010

Sexual Education Centers


CLICK the first video about OneTaste below, then click throughout for more info. OneTaste Urban Retreat Centers are sexploration centers which are located in San Francisco and New York. They also have personal sex coaches in various cities. Given great reviews in the media, these centers are supposedly good in the respect that people can go in, learn, explore, then keep it anonymous afterwards. They even have retreats that can be like both a vacation combined with a "sex" enhancement training course. While, it is alittle too freaky and "new age" for some, it is worth looking into, if one wants growth in their relationships and within theirselves. If you go, please post comments about your experience.
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Wednesday, June 9, 2010

A Touchy Subject - Changing Of The Sexes

Unless you are super open-minded and curious, do not open or read this article or open up the following links. You probably have either worked with, are related to, or have seen a transexual or transgender somewhere. And if you were looking into surgeries, there is so much to research.
This article is not about the stereotypical "TS"(transexual) or "TV"(transvestite) and their sexual exploits that are seen on the streets and in movies. It is about the person's livelihood and identity. You will also see the reasons why some people might opt out of getting the surgery. For one, aside from the costs, what happens to the sexual function/sensitivity is a bit unclear. Plastic surgery and hormones can make the person "look" exactly like a man or woman. But apparently surgery cannot make a real looking clitoris and maybe a few other things to consider. Unless you can find other proof, so far it appears that in the penile surgery, usually the penis is pretty small and is said to not really do the real thing without a penile implant. The first link is probably one of the most thorough and scientific articles about sexual reassignment surgery and what really happens with the genitalia of a transexual. Warning, explicit!
CLICK HERE TO SEE MAN INTO WOMAN
CLICK HERE TO SEE WOMAN
INTO MAN

Now if you click these links below you will see how indeed the voice and everything changes with the hormones so you cannot even tell! Freakish, but interesting.
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A very good comment was made on this youtube clip which says: "I would like to know how being a transgendered person is morally wrong?? what is so horrible about trying to be yourself?" So many of us are so close to judge, regardless as to who we are. Before deciding, many people do not get understanding of the facts about why people do what they do.
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Wednesday, May 12, 2010

What Men Really Want

Here's Alex at the Beverly Hills Country Club. He is like the Gary Smalley of using great sex for enhancing relationships. You would not like this if you are a know-it-all type. But if you are a man or woman wanting to do more things to your mate that noone else can do, then Alex is your guy
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Wednesday, April 14, 2010

Vaginal Queef

The sextalk pro Sue Johanson, explains queefing. Many a woman may blush, but actually alot of guys don't mind it one bit. It makes a wild feeling to him as well. Lol, crazy, mad pussy alert!

Thursday, March 11, 2010

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Sex - In Demand - Internet Porn

Whether you like, love, tolerate or just hate porn, it will always be a top internet seller. I do not know where they got their statistics, but I do know that alot of new adult sites just fold within the first two years. Reason? It is because a domain name without strategic marketing is like a "billboard in the desert". Alot of people think they will get rich quick in porn, just on its own volition. Yes, long as they use extensive and exploitive PR/marketing, along with a great tech team. Just imagine, with more people desperate for either employment or new careers, there is more mom/pops that could be your neighbors doing this. Silently working at home to develop huge moneymaking sites.
The cute music with this video was done by Don C
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Thursday, February 11, 2010

Make Love Not Porn

First off, while I am not an avid porn "viewer", I am not slamming porn. It is obvious that each of us has their own preference. My personal "entertainment" favorites are mutual masturbation, virtual sex or erotica (as in porn with a real-ness theme)
With porn, I am concerned with unrealistic expectations put on women about what they like and about how men have to be giantly endowed in order to please the woman. Because of the portrayal of over-exaggerated greatness in porn, some relationships will have issues when porn is confused with reality. The arrow clicks on this site are very interesting and factual for those who never had thought about the facts of the real world v.s the porn world
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Tuesday, January 12, 2010

Great Oral Sex, by Alex Allman

Oral Sex Skills To Drive Her Wild
by Alex Allman

Let's begin with this true story:
I was meeting some friends out at a casual
place for a couple of drinks... and, as it turns
out, all of them happened to be female.
Anyway, I arrived a couple of minutes late, and
they were already in the middle of a conversation
when I got there. "Girl talk."
I guess because they know that I'm not a judgmental
guy... or maybe because they know I wrote a few books
about sex... or, heck, maybe it's because I'm so "in
touch with my feminine side"... they just kept
the conversation going when I got there as if I was
just one of the girls.
As you might have guessed based on the subject line
of this newsletter, they were talking about oral sex...
And you would be right.
What you might not have guessed is that they
were swapping stories about the WORST oral sex
that they had ever received. And they were... LAUGHING HYSTERICALLY.
Talk about uncomfortable.
I was just sitting there, smiling and nodding
while the girls were laughing their heads off
talking about the guy who slobbered too much, and
the guy with the "corpse tongue" (no, I did not
make that up), and the guy who didn't know where
anything was, and the guy who... Well, okay. You get the idea.
It was kind of awkward because I felt really
BAD for these guys... but I didn't want to come
out and "defend" them-- At the same time, I sure didn't want to start
acting like a big know-it-all and saying something
like, "Well... I wrote a book on this stuff so
let me tell you ladies how it gets done right..."
So, basically, I just kept my mouth shut and
listened. And while it was very awkward, it was also
very interesting.
One of the main things I learned was that there are
VERY few guys who really know what they are doing when they
go down on a girl. And that when a girl does meet a guy who knows
exactly how to send her into orbit, it's a big deal. She's going to definitely want to keep that guy around, and she will brag to her friends about him.
The other thing I learned was that a lot of
women are basically clueless as to what they
themselves actually like...
I mean, THEY KNOW IT WHEN IT HAPPENS...
but they didn't seem to really know EXACTLY why.
I guess they can't really see what's going
on down there-- or maybe it's just that when it's
really great, they completely lose the ability to
think AT ALL.
Because as I was listening to them, I could
hear that they would talk about the SAME things
as the "worst" or "the best" depending on the guy
they were with. In other words... the guy that "slobbered" too
much was bad, but the guy that made it really wet
down there was good... Was it all in their heads? Not exactly.
The big "ah-ha" here is that when it comes to
going down on a woman, WHAT you do is far less
important than HOW you do it.
And maybe that's why I figured the "basic"
material on this subject wouldn't be that great
to share with you... even if you KNOW all that
basic stuff, it's still possible that a group
of girls will be sitting around in a bar somewhere
making fun of YOU. Ouch.
I want to make sure that when you use the tips
I give you in these Newsletters that you will
absolutely give her the best sexual experience of
her life when you try them out.
I'll tell you up front that the three tips
that I'm going to share are all much more
about getting into her mind than her body, because
seriously, for women, THAT is where it ALL
happens.
For men, a certain amount of what makes great
sex is what goes on in our heads... I mean, being
distracted and nervous can kill it... but for
the most part, it's not about our mood... it's
about the physical stuff:
-What she looks like
-what she feels like
-what she smells like
-what she sounds like
-and what she's doing to us.
That is just NOT the case for women.
Yes, that stuff matters. But for women
the physical things you do don't matter
anywhere near as much as things like:
-sexual confidence
-sexual trust
-the things you say to her
-HOW you say them
-and how you CONNECT with her.
Now, if you're thinking that "connect with
her" sounds kind of vague... don't worry. I'm
going to tell you EXACTLY how to do that.
With the following tips I'm going to tell you
EXACTLY how to make her FEEL that you are
connecting with her in the way that will drive
her wild with lust.
If everything goes really well, YOU'LL feel
it too, and the experience will be incredible for
both of you...
>>> 1. Pay Attention
I talk about this idea of "paying attention"
all the time. I believe that it is one of the
most important ideas that a man MUST understand
to become a truly great lover.
It is a particularly important concept when
it comes to going "down town".
The CRITICAL thing to remember when it comes
to great sex is that every woman is DIFFERENT.
This fact just gets lost on most guys because
either, they read about some great move in a book
or in a magazine article or website... and they
are SURE that it will work if only they keep at
it long enough...
Or, there is a thing they did that drove their
first/last girlfriend absolutely crazy... and they
keep doing it over and over on every new woman they
date... even though NONE of them respond to it.
This is just the way we men are built. We
like hard and definite solutions to problems that
will work in a variety of situations.
We like to problem solve-- but once we've
solved it, we can be very stubborn about holding
on to our solution.
That just doesn't work when it comes to
making love to a woman.
Some women like direct pressure that is
so firm that you might fear injuring her, while
others like feather-light and even indirect touch.
Every woman is unique, and finding out how
to touch her takes experimentation and paying
attention.
It is very unlikely that she will come out and
TELL you how she wants it... "a little to the left,
now not quite so hard, but a little bit faster..."
Not going to happen.
Yet, she WILL "COMMUNICATE" all of that
information to you, and more... if you know how
to listen with your body.
You've got to "tune in" to the woman you are
in bed with.
Listen to changes in her breathing, the way
her skin softens and her muscles tighten, the
way the blood flushes beneath her skin in her
face and breasts, the way she moans..

She is definitely communicating. She is
telling you all of the secret ways that she wants
to be touched and teased. But it's up to you to
understand what she's communicating...
And that comes back to paying attention.
If you are doing it right, you will really
enjoy it and it will really draw you deeply into
the experience of her.
It will make it better for both of you.
If you insist that you need a bunch of different
"techniques" to experiment with... you can get all
of the positions and specific techniques by going
HERE
But I want to say again-- that kind of basic
information is available many places online...
But the fact remains:
You can do EVERYTHING right. You
can make all the right moves with your fingers,
lips, and tongue... and still not really drive
her crazy...
On the other hand, you can do only the most
basic stuff, and if you can dial into her emotional
state and stay connected with her, you'll completely
fry the circuits in her brain.
>>>2. Stay Connected
I guess I really should back up a bit and start
with "Get Connected" before I have you worry
about staying there.
MOST men never really figure out how to connect
to a woman's sexual emotions. And that's a shame
because that is where the most intense orgasms
begin-- not in her vagina, but in her brain.
Great sex for a man is definitely possible even
if you are completely disconnected from the woman...
I'd even say that you could dislike the woman, and
if she is physically HOT and enthusiastic, you might
still have some great sex.
But for a woman this is just not the case.
She needs to feel connection, and she needs
to feel trust, and she needs to feel that she
won't be judged or humiliated by her partner
before she can have her deepest and most powerful
sexual experiences.
You make those connections with the things you
say, the way you hold her eye-contact, the way
you smile confidently at her, the tone of your
voice, the way you put your hands on her, and
the way you hold her.
(If this doesn't make sense to you, or you
just want to understand it better, you should
probably go apologize to your girlfriend, and then
immediately read my eBook.)
Making her feel connected and then STAYING
connected is especially difficult when you are
going down on her because she is pretty much
ALONE UP THERE.
No doubt a woman can really "enjoy" oral sex
even if she is not feeling connected to you down
there...
But she can't really have mind-melting orgasms
that way. And more importantly, for many women,
they just begin to feel awkward... or even have
feelings of anxiety.
But it's so easy for you to completely take
care of all of those issues for her.
All you have to do is give her some small
signs to let her know that you are still aware
that there is a whole person attached to that
clitoris.
Look up at her and make eye-contact once in a
while.
Stop and tell her how much you are enjoying it
or how hot you think it is.
Reach up and stroke the side of her face and
hair.
Take her hands and give them a gentle squeeze.
Any signal that lets her feel that you are
connected to her as a person...
You don't have to do all of these things, and
you don't have to do them all the time. Just
give her a few signs every few minutes and watch
what happens immediately afterwards...
First, her body will relax into what you
are doing, and then, very quickly, she'll have
a MUCH more intense orgasm.
And just as easy as that, you are in the
Master Class!
>>>3. Push Her Limits
WARNING: This tip is for RELATIONSHIPS
ONLY.
This is not something you ought to bust
out on a third date.
It is very important that you know the girl
you are with and understand her on an emotional
level before you attempt this sort of thing.
Please note that nothing I am about to
write involves the use of force or of doing
ANYTHING against a woman's will.
I hate having to write that, but unfortunately
there are a few dumb-asses out there that can
twist the meaning of things, and I want to make
sure I am perfectly clear:
You should NEVER do ANYTHING to a woman that
she does not consent to and want you to do.
Okay, with that out of the way...
Women are frequently "resistant" to having their
most intense orgasms. They can feel it's about
to happen... and they nearly panic.
It's bigger than anything they have experienced
before and it can be frightening.
Usually this happens after she has come a few
times already and is on the verge of going into
multiple orgasms. And suddenly she feels like if
she comes that hard, she just won't be able to take
it...
So she clamps her legs closed, or she wiggles
her hips out of the way. She may even moan,
"Wait! Wait! I can't take any more!"
If you and your partner are in a trusting
relationship, and if she is emotionally healthy,
try to ease her past this limit.
Here is a great way to do it...
When she begins to squirm or resist as she
reaches her "pleasure limit", reach up and place
your palm firmly in the center of her chest, and
press her "down" onto the bed.
This will not prevent her from squirming
away, and it will not prevent her from closing
her legs, or confine or entrap her in any way...
It is simply a dominant and masculine gesture
that let's her know that you want her stay calm
so that you can continue taking her higher.
Most women, if you do this gently but with
confidence, will become sexually submissive, and,
if there is enough trust between you, she will
surrender her fear to you and let you take her to
the "next level."
You can also do it verbally by calmly and
confidently saying to her, "I'm going to take you
higher, all you have to do is relax and remember
to breath."
Or "You're okay, I've got you," and then
continue.
Saying something like this... that is both a
gentle command and a reassurance that you know
what is going on and that you can confidently
pilot her through the experience will do amazing
things.
It allows her to psychologically surrender
control of the "decision" to you. She simply
can't make the decision herself to experience that
much pleasure-- but if she completely trusts you,
she will LET YOU make the decision for her.
At this point, if you have followed the first
2 steps...
You have been paying attention so that you know
exactly how to drive her wild...
And you have stayed connected with her so that
is feeling the emotions of sexual trust...
Then by taking her past what she had thought
were her limits of pleasure, she will experience
an orgasm that will knock the walls down.
PLEASE remember:
When you give a woman this kind of pleasure it
is not something YOU did alone. It is something
that SHE ALLOWED TO HAPPEN.
Allowing this to happen, for her, is emotionally
dangerous. She will feel EXTREMELY emotionally
vulnerable afterwards.
DON'T SAY OR DO ANYTHING STUPID. Just hold her, stroke her hair, and say something
nice.
Be aware that if you laugh-- even if it is
just a laugh of pure happiness and pleasure,
she may misunderstand and become very upset.
Sarcasm is strictly off limits.
Be gentle.
If you are in love with her, tell her so.
If not, tell her that she is amazing and that
you really enjoyed what just happened.
I'll repeat at this point that these 3 tips
are "advanced" and that they will produce
amazing results.
You probably were not aware before of just
exactly how LOUD your woman can scream.
If you are not getting incredible results, and
if your partner is not completely obsessed with
getting you into bed by this point, then I assume
that you have not yet downloaded your copy of
my online eBook.
If you haven't, I highly recommend you do that
right now. Here's why:
First, it explains in great detail why all of
this stuff works, and you will understand how to
make the woman (or women) in your life so
completely satisfied that they will forever think
of you as, by far, the best lover they have ever
had... no matter what your "size", endurance, or
any of that silly crap that doesn't matter.
Second, because it is on-line, you can be
reading it for yourself, literally minutes from
the time you click the link...
Third, because your success and your relationship
are WAY more important to me than my wallet, so you
have my absolute guarantee that if what you read
does not work in your relationship, just email me and
I will be happy to return your money and we'll still be
friends.
CLICK HERE FOR MORE INFORMATION
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And don't forget... with great power comes
great responsibility. I was a little bit nervous
sharing this stuff. It is much more powerful
than it seems on the surface.
I hope that you, like me, cherish the woman
in your life and that you don't use this kind of
knowledge without understanding the emotional
responsibility that goes with it.
Enjoy.
And I'll talk to you again soon.
Your friend,
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Thursday, November 19, 2009

Female Ejaculation: Can ALL Women Do It?

Female Ejaculation: Can ALL Women Do It?
By Alex Allman

Most women are capable of MANY sexual
experiences (including "female ejaculation")
that they often DON'T EVEN KNOW that they
can experience... If you want to be the guy
to teach her, HERE'S HOW...

***QUESTION***
Dear Alex,

I really don't know if this is the right
E-mail, but I'm using it anyway to thank you for
all the tips and advice you gave me in your news
letters.
I read about female ejaculation and I would
like to know if any girl can squirt...I really want
to give much much pleasure to my girl. Well in fact
I think I've already did, but I want something
more powerful...
I read all your news letters and I try to pay
attention to all her moves and expressions... this
is helping me a lot.
Thanks again,
K.

>>>MY COMMENTS:
Hey man, glad to hear that my tips have been
working for you. Keep up the good work.
Female Ejaculation or "squirting" seems to be
the subject everyone is interested in these days...
So let's get into your question--
Can any girl squirt?
Well, obviously no big experiments have been
set up at a research lab to see if ANY woman can
experience female ejaculation-- so we can't be
certain here... But I think that the answer is certainly "yes."
That said, there are a lot of reasons why any
particular woman might have more difficulty.
The obvious reason is that there are many couples
who have a lot of trouble even figuring out how to
get the woman to experience any orgasm at all--much
less squirting.
But to really answer your question fully, let's
talk for a minute about where this squirting comes
from...
There are tiny glands located above a woman's
urethra (the tube that carries urine from the
bladder) that fill with fluid during sexual
stimulation-- these glands, called the intra-
urethral glands (or sometimes called Skene's
glands) are responsible for female ejaculation.
During, or right before, a very powerful orgasm
these glands sometimes squirt into the urethra
where the muscles of the along the outside of the
vagina cause it to squirt out with force.
Sometimes.
It seems that particular types of stimulation
cause it to happen, and only when a woman is
relaxed enough to allow it to occur.
If she feels like she has to pee when she is
having an orgasm, it's probably the feeling of
pressure building up in her intra-urethral glands...
she is probably very close to being able to squirt.
Now that you know where it's from, I can better
answer your question... can any woman squirt?
Here's why this is such a difficult question to
answer...
The size of these glands is very different from
woman to woman. In some women they are fairly
large, and in other women they are so small that
they are difficult to detect.
In those women where they are very small, the
amount of fluid that might come out during a
female ejaculation would be much less.
To add to this situation, the opening where
the glands empty into the urethra also vary in
size-- so much that in some women the ducts are
thinner than a human hair, meaning that it is possible
that no fluid would be able to escape at all.
What all of this means is that in some women,
even if they are "EXPERIENCING female ejaculation,"
it's possible that so little will actually dribble
out, that you might not be able to tell for sure.
So don't worry too much about what comes out,
and focus on how she FEELS.
Now I'm not sure that this explanation does full
justice to the majority of women who can, with
some practice, ejaculate a very amount of clear,
odorless liquid... the glands seem just too small
to soak the sheets in this way... but I recently
read a theory that I think "holds water" on this
issue--
It is possible that the fluid travels up
the urethra and expands there like a water
balloon filling up, or even into the bladder
itself... and then when it is built up enough and
releases, we see that big volume of liquid.
It's also worth noting that many articles on
subject say that the g-spot must be stimulated
to achieve ejaculation, and that is not the case.
Many women can squirt with clitoral stimulation
only... even though the intra-urethral glands
are, in fact, located at the g-spot.
If you want more information on exactly how
to stimulate your woman to achieve female
ejaculation, I have en entire chapter on the
subject in my online eBook-- including a
"trouble-shooting" section with common mistakes
and problems that guys have when trying to get
their girl to squirt.
You can download the info and read it right
now by going here CLICK HERE

Sunday, October 18, 2009

Best Technique To Stay Harder Longer

Alex Allman really has some great articles to help individuals and couples rock each other's world! If you like what you read and want to buy his material, it comes highly recommended, just click the link under his address below for more:

BEST TECHNIQUE TO STAY HARDER LONG

We're talking about 2 things here...
1) Last longer even at super-high levels of
arousal, even during wild, aggressive intercourse
2) Maintain a harder and more durable erection,
even if you're over 40 (or 60 for that matter)
So a couple of things come into play here... the
penis is not a muscle, it's a vascular organ, and
so your cardiovascular condition does affect your
ability.
Levels of testosterone, serotonin, and other
hormones and neurotransmitters play a role too...
and these things do fluctuate with age, so younger
guys have an easier time with #2 above and older
men have an easier time with #1...
But from where ever you are in your life and
condition, there is a technique that works so
well, that, I kid you not, if you start using it
and you've been in a long term relationship, your
partner might accuse you of having gotten a
prescription for "vitamin V". She will be blown
away by the change.
The technique I'm talking about is training your
self to have non-ejaculatory orgasms.
I'll be honest, I'm not sure what all of the
biology is behind why this works so well, but
there is nothing as powerful. Every night that
you have non-ejaculatory orgasms they become
more and more powerful, it becomes easier and
easier to to last longer, and your erection
becomes like iron.
I'm in my mid-40s myself, and when I discovered
this effect I could not believe the power of
what started happening to my body.
Since then 100s of men have learned my step-by-
step system, and they have also had fantastic
results.
I'm not gonna make any wild claims here... it
does take a couple of weeks to get the hang of
this... but once you start, it just keeps getting
stronger and stronger. And the amount of pleasure
that both you and your partner can get out of this
practice is just insane.

Alex Allman
Skill & Wisdom LLC
2629 Main St., #131
Santa Monica CA, 90405

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Thursday, August 20, 2009

Two Finger Technique To Help Her Orgasm

Jason Julius is a wonderful sex teacher. Without having a Phd, he has authored alot of articles to make men better lovers and to help women achieve more orgasms. While this video is exceptional, I disagree regarding that women just like 2 fingers. But 2 fingers should work for you with alot of women. My experience is that this is varied between every woman. Some women love 1 finger, others like 3 or more.
CLICK HERE FOR YOUR FREE LESSON
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Monday, August 10, 2009

Asexuality


Sometimes, I wonder if these labels that are put on others are just temporary or experimental. The reason I write this is because I know that with my personal life, some things are just a temporary exploration through the seasons and ages of life, but we put a label to them and others assume it is permanent. Most of you who are inherent risktakers have gone through many of these "seasonal" journeys. Maybe this is to include a "sabatical" from being close to others. For me, this only happened from being hurt, thus a period that could of labeled me as being an"asexual".
You may have heard the term asexual? I don't always agree with all the theories about this subject. Still it is a matter some suffer with in relations or with someone they once knew.
For one, supposedly while an asexual person is someone who usually abstains from sex, I think some people have a predisposition to do this just the same as with other things people do. They prefer to be platonic forever, in alot of cases. But let's look at the reasons..... For instance, a man finds his wife hates sex anymore. Perhaps she is going into an asexual part of her life. I know hormones can affect people to either make them want lots of sex, or none at all. I have also seen former drug addicts who used to have an excess libido and extreme serotonin overdrive from cocaine or meth drugs. Then just as much as the drug-induced horniness was all the way up the charts, it went all the way down to the point that years later, they either could not really perform sex, or could care less about it. Thus, they acted just like an asexual person.
Another reason noone seems to explain, is that some people might become asexual from the obvious factor, being that they got hurt by someone. I know women that consider theirself "gay", but only because men hurt them. There is also a possibility for a person who becomes asexual in that, let's say, if they have Erectile Dysfunction, Herpes, Hep B or C, HIV/AIDS, or some debilitating illness where they just want closeness but do not want to share sexual intimacy and/or tell all their innermost secrets.
I have thought that sometimes I go through asexuality, but it is more like abstinence or celibacy.......I prefer closeness first and then to be only with one person, not a "fly by night". Those easy ones are too easy to get and lovemaking is too special, at least, for me.
In any event, for whatever reason a person finds theirself in this situation, it is kind to not push them for sex. If more single men treated every woman like an asexual woman, he would then not fear rejection and some of those single women might just take a mind to turn around and be with him. Statistics can show us that more men fear commitment and more women hate the pressure to have sex instead of friendship. So If you are looking for a mate, it might still be fair to say that at least if they label theirself as "asexual", you might have to weigh that they might be a more faithful mate in the longrun. This being should you choose to pursue them and if they do not consider theirself "permanently" asexual. Obviously, only a permanent asexual should be with another permanent asexual, or make other arrangements to fulfil their needs.

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Wednesday, July 15, 2009

Get On This Free Subscription List

Alex Allman, the author of these relationship writings has invited me to do affiliate work for his materials. I am seriously thinking about it.

I highly suggest that you subscribe to his free newsletter, so that you can get his writings. Warning, he refers other people that might spam you if you give them your email. He himself just sends you wonderful writings. Ofcourse, he would want you to purchase his materials, but you can really get some great ideas about how to put turbo in your sexlife.
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Friday, June 19, 2009

Cuckold Fetishism


I believe cuckold is pronounced like "cuckoo" the bird, then with "old" at the end.
This type of relation is usually different with just a few similarities for the reasons people have polyamorous couple relations (listed below). With cuckolding it seems that most people just enter the other person into their bed on a more temporary basis. Polyamory often picks another woman, while cuckoldism picks another man.
Most common is the man who likes to see his wife being pleasured by other men. Some times the man actually gets off by being humiliated and it is combined with BDSM. Less likely have I found the husband to be bi-sexual at all, but just likes to watch another man with his wife.
Surprisingly, I just met a couple of whom the wife could not find someone to partake. She was reasonably attractive. The only thing they might of been up against is that maybe the other man would of done it if the husband was not watching, but I am not completely sure. They have been together over a decade and appear to have started their relationship this way. I often wonder if it would work doing it later in the relationship. Personally, if I was into this I would do it only if I knew the man was already a cuckold and we both agreed, then I might consider. For some reason, I do not think I could ever do it myself, being I like to be only with one person and would think I was "cheating".....
MORE INFO HERE: CLICK HERE FOR DEEPER KNOWLEDGE ABOUT CUCKOLDS

Tuesday, June 2, 2009

Important Note About CMS

This CMS blog has been written to open up your mind about different sexual things. Again, I remind you that I do not endorse every type of sexuality, as some things can harm a marriage or relationship. I just write about experiences and from talking with many people about these subjects. As always, keep your relationships strong and exercise extreme caution. Obviously, only you know your strengths and as to whether you can or cannot do certain things.

Tuesday, May 12, 2009

Female Ejaculation


I have been wanting to write on the subject of Female Ejaculation for quite some time. How great when a woman can have a squirting climax and the urge to let go of her pressures, just like a man does.

As you know, on the net there is so many scams that say they are not scams.......anything to make a buck.

Best bet is to get a few books from Amazon if you need to find out more on the subject of techniques which make a woman orgasm and squirt. There is some great material online, but you are full aware that you must be careful about making an informed decision before you part with your money. Better yet, go to a good library or bookstore to find these books.

The porn flicks are typically fake squirters. They drink large volumes of liquid and then they pee, or they fill theirselves with liquid which will fly out during each camera shoot, or there is a douche internal thing that they squeeze. Sometimes it is squirted onto a clear glass lense for heightened effect to the porn viewers. In any event, with good trick camera editing the effect will look neat, if porn is your thing. Only those knowledgeable of the subject will know it is fake..

Many people try to sell various educational products claiming to make any woman squirt. While, I wish this was true, it is a big unfair letdown for many. Unfortunately many women will not be able. and should not feel threatened if they cannot squirt. Besides, the climax itself is more important than anything.

Most crucial to any woman is allowing her mind to free itself and let go.

She must find her own spot. First be sure to urinate before you play with yourself. Look for the walnut skin just inside the opening of your puss and just around the pee-pee hole itself. There will be a pressure point of when you hit it a certain way you must listen for a wet smacking sound. This sound and feel will be the first thing you must remember. Consider that sound to be your guide.

Because you already urinated before playing with yourself, when and if you squirt, you will know it is ejaculate and not urine. Lubricate and rub your clit. Actually some women can squirt by pressure or even by rigorous rubbing of the clit. Spank it alittle too. These are things you have to find yourself, as each woman is different regarding what stimulates her. Now that you found your spot located just inside the opening, do a jackhammering motion when you fingerbang until you feel the urge to urinate. Many women use 2 fingers for this.

Do not fear that you will urinate as, again, this is not urine. Bear down, push, moan or scream and let it go. If anything gushes out, you will notice it has a unique smell and taste. Sometimes it might even smell like watered down male sperm. And like male sperm, it can taste either sweet or salty. Some women are known to have a very sugary tasting ejaculate which they will gladly taste theirselves. If you are a woman who ever gets to ejaculate, you will notice a very intense and different orgasm that is undescribably delightful. After you squirt and he is inside you, it will make you scream all the more. Having a mate who shares the love of bringing you there is the best thing any woman can ask for. My greatest wish is that you get there !!!!

Tuesday, May 5, 2009

Beautiful Erotica

Erotica, yet almost porn, but NOT........
This sort of thing will be odd to some and wonderfully exciting to others. There is nothing really showing, but this site has managed to take real eroticism to the next level.
CLICK HERE TOP LEFT WHERE IT SAYS "FREE PREVIEW"

Wednesday, April 8, 2009

Anal Sex






Cartoon 'Kiss My Butt' Man - Free Clip Art at FunDraw.com

Perhaps you did anal sex only once and never again. Maybe you like it and it gives you screaming orgasms. For alot of women it is hated, or only tolerated. As in knowing and asking many women, I have found that most do not like it, few are crazy about it and still quite a few have never tried it. Only once in a while have I ever met a woman that really, really likes it. Alot of men will ask for this and there is some tricks to make it pleasurable.
An obvious must-have would be to have some great lubricant. I prefer Astroglide because it is less sticky than alot of the other lubricants.
The worst thing for the anal experience is when someone is unexperienced and with an unexperienced partner, where they are subject to the pain and the nasties.
So that you do not end up saying your butt is "exit only", you must get yourself a hot water bottle enema. An enema is key to having clean anal sex without it from becoming a terrible experience. Ironically, it appears more men are cool about the "crap" than women. Also, once men get over any possible taboos, they seem to love their butts played with more than the women do, go figure. In fact, they seem to go crazy over sex with toys.
Again, for a woman, anal sex can be tremendously embarassing if she has anal without the enema first. It will probably take 2 warm hot water bottles to cleanse your anus thoroughly. Relax, then once you are clean, just rest a few minutes and continue to relax. Lots of lubricant and using a small toy or butt-plug is a good thing to start with (SEE February '09 Toy Of The Month-the blue toys below). Practice deep breathing to open your threshold of pain which will then open the rectal spincture. It is only then that you can receive your joy. Remember, "once you get past any pain, open up for pleasure". Having a considerate, gentle mate is the only obvious way to enjoy anal if you are ever going to enjoy it. If for some reason you do not, you will not be the only one, not to worry.

Thursday, March 19, 2009

Best Oral To Give A Man



Being I am not a guy, I don't know all the sensations a man directly feels when he gets oral sex. But I do know how obvious it is that they want it more than they can ever get it. When they moan during oral, it can really turn some women on. Moaning and showing pleasure is a great thing to do in general. I have heard that there is no such thing as bad oral sex, when a man receives it. Well.... unless they get your teeth.... which is an obvious no-no.

I cannot tell you my source of this info, but they were men who showed me about oral many years ago. They told me all about it because they were sexual explorers like I was. Many of these things you would already know, but you can gleen some other interesting facts about doing oral on a man, as follows................

First, ask the man about the most sensitive parts on his cock and where he likes to be touched the most. Find out if he likes his balls fondled or lightly scratched. Keep this in mind for when you start getting into pleasing him, so you can suck and also even play with his prostate as well.

If you find doing oral uncomfortable and really don't like it, there is some visual mindplay that will help you. Try to make fun with yourself. Pretend in your mind that it is a nice lollipop, a popsicle, a succulent skinfruit, a love organ, or anything that will make you hungry about sucking it. Most of all, imagine how much he is going to be pleased. You can make him crave you and only you !

Rock your head up and down slow, then awhile later you can go faster, and back and forth, and also make your head do a circular movement up and down as you devour his cock. Then just tongue-flick it up and down, then lick and suck at the same time. No correct sequence, just get into it. Have your tongue do different things. Remember, it is delicious to him when you drool on cock and balls, then breath and blow on those wet areas.

Yes, it goes on and on, then you can breath hot gasps he will feel. Go figure, but sometimes he likes to think you are gagging on his cock. It makes him feel so big!(There is a numbing throat gel you can buy for deepthroat, if you wish to try doing that.) Moan to make your mouth vibrate while you are sucking. You can even get a bullet vibrator (see below on blog- Toy Pick - November) and hold it just under your bottom lip for an added sensation. All in all, when you do all these things, I guarantee that you will be someone he thinks about constantly, even if you don't do it all the time! Please note: Not for "fly-by-nights"....just for someone very special ! Why waste it on someone who won't appreciate you !?

Friday, February 27, 2009

Best Lubricant Ever

















IMPORTANT: NOT FOR USE WITH TOYS OR CONDOMS !!........................... KEEP IN A COOL TEMPERATURE
If you want something that can be used for many purposes, you might want to look into getting Coconut Oil. Once you get it you will see what I mean.
Vegetable Grade Coconut Oil from Health Food Stores is good, but the Virgin Coconut Oil has better health benefits as well.
Use as a personal lubricant to keep yourself from getting dry in midflight. You can use it to make those natural erotic swishy sounds that might arouse you.
It is great to use as a food condiment, AWESOME for hot oil hair treatments, making massage oils, as a skin moisturizer that actually soaks in the skin,....... and again, if you use this for masturbation, you will truly see how great it is. Put some on the clit for clit rub too ! For men, it is man's other best friend !
I did research and found other suppliers to have massive BBB (Better Business Bureau) complaints, so I would recommend that you just stick with Amazon for ordering, unless you find a reputable source. If you do, let me know.
You can search it on Amazon.com under "Virgin Coconut Oil or go to this link
CLICK HERE FOR AMAZON LINK

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Sunday, February 1, 2009

Men Are From What-is, Women Are From Whatever











I am off the cuff, as usual, but I love talking about things that turn us on and off, especially sexual things. Thanks to the many women who tell me EVERYTHING and are open to share the things that are important to us. I think that most of us women somehow never want to confuse a man about all of our needs. The only reason they get confused is when they are unable to see our side, or to see things on a emotional level.
Truly, on the man's end, and I challenge anyone to dispute this, but I think men tend to go more directly from point A to B. Women's minds go more from A-Z with B considered just a part, then taking the long route first, when it could of just been A-B. In all of this, a man can make it easier to figure it all out. All they have to do is just fix problems by showing expressive attempts to resolve, instead of worrying about confrontation, rejection or being slighted by their mate. Just remember, women, due to emotional "what-the-f's", are known to sometimes appear irrational, even when they are not. In being a woman, trying to make a simplistic approach to explaining our needs is not easy for us. We talk and express more, if we are that type of woman. I am not talking about non-expressive or cold women, I am talking about excitingly sexual and wonderful women. If only the man can corner the A-B "issues" with a hug, then both parties can be more laid back and comfortable. Getting a positive end result will only happen by how one can discern what approach to take where the other person is well-pleased.

Sunday, January 25, 2009

60s Thinking/Theology








I love studying about the 60s in California or NY because of the changes affecting us since that era. Radical thinking without complacency was accepted. Whatever you wanted to talk about was not always judged unfairly.
Divorce was not so common before the 60s, but it very likely comes from fickle-thinking, feminism, or acceptance of divorce as the "thing to do" when you are not happy. Freelove was great, when done with the same open-mind and when done in honesty. While I am not totally against feminism, my view is that it was wonderful when a woman could accomplish more, however, sometimes I still want to go back to where the woman could stay home with family and where the man was actually wanting to take care of her. It gave a man alot of pride and purpose to have someone who NEEDS him, instead of the opposite.
In conversations with college students who are like 60s thinkers, I find that there is quite a few that want to go back to having some traditional values and maintaining unbroken homes. They want to ask how to make things work from older folk like me. Many people my age are like they already know it all or never ask things of anyone, which is sad. As like the 60s, open-mindedness to me means you are not "stuffy", not arrogant, not snobby, but it means you are also the inquiring type. Asking about things that matter should never be an issue. I don't know it all, I just write viewpoints. Most of you just read and don't tell me what you think, but I would love to hear from you.
Back to the 60s, I just love people's passion from back then where they were not afraid to fight for causes. It is great to be passionate about things instead of being like a ghost. It is great to learn something from the "reckless abandon" and occasionally take our minds to that place known as "freedom". And, as always, I believe sex is a big part of keeping a couple together. Keeping their house a happy home instead of a place of dread. Wildness in bed, open-mindedness, love, peace, radical thinking, creativity... What happens in bed to stay in bed !.....Keeping bonds and making them stronger.....What a better world this would be if we focus on this !!!
Free the mind and the body..... Peace and Love to you all !!! Love the one your with and express how much you care for them !!! ........................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................

Saturday, January 10, 2009

Polyamorous Relations To Stop Cheaters?


Do not read this article unless you are of a very open-type mind or............curious.....lol....we all are curious !!
There is a concept that is becoming more popular in the privacy of people's homes around the world. You may think this is extremely weird, but people have been considering polyamorous relations with other people, so that they do not cheat or ruin their marriages. Instead of lying about an interest in other people, they simply offer and suggest it to their mate. Polyamory will always be an awkward and controversial subject, like alot of things these days............................
Otherwise known as an "open relationship", this type of relation is not to be confused with swinging. I have met numerous people, who when they decided to swing with multiple partners and to do orgies, the relation broke off within 3 years. If a person is in a "marriage of convenience" or does not give a rip, perhaps swinging can work. However, a "amorous relation" is often where both pick a person they can bond with. As any relation comes with its own complexities, lots of communication is crucial before adding another person to the mix. The bond between the originating couple has to be very very strong in order to do this. Sometimes a couple will pick a friend they have known for years. Usually the odds would seem to be in favor of what the originating couple wants. It appears that not as often is it that a couple chooses another man for the same woman. The most common sex variations can be woman-woman, man with two woman, or just the other woman with the same man. People may like to fantasize about this relation and keep it at that. It seems that with swinging or amorous relations there is often someone in the mix who may always feel left out. In turn many are at a loss to explain why they are feeling that way. Also, if you are in long-term polyamory, and you are the "other woman", you are not in his health benefits, etc., for instance. ...................................................................
If it is the woman in the relation who wants another man, most men won't allow this. To the woman, it might not seem fair, expecially if the husband never attempts to bring her to climax. Because men are often threatened by other men having their wives, it appears that they might only allow another man if they have cuckold (google that word to see what it means) fantasies, and/or preferably if they think the guy is a nice guy that they and their lady already know............................................................................When a woman picks another woman, there is so many reasons for her wanting the relationship. One, ofcourse being the knowledge of the female body, sexuality and emotions. And as in polygamy, another woman can help with the house and kids or to nurture the other if she is sick. Another woman can confide better with the woman, so guys, while we know you love the idea of two women, often the man will feel left out of the bond between the woman. .............................
When people do this, they try to hide this "polyamorous" relation from their kids, their family and friends. Searches on the internet for such a mate are sometimes as strange, even alot stranger than any other attempt to meet strangers online, whereas the couple has to resort to think of someone they both already know and love. This ofcourse poses the test of both the relationship between the couple and the friendship with their friend. But if the other person is already of an "open" mind, they can take it or leave it as a compliment. For me, it does leave a strange taste, because even though I did not tell the couple I thought it was strange, I have had had couples ask me to "do them" over 5 times in my life. I am too possessive, so I do not understand sharing, but I do value other peoples ability to share. .........................................................................Again, keep in mind there is a thing to consider: Your partner and friend might end up being hurt or it might just be a 6 month fling before everyone tires of this. Then again it might be long-term. I do not have enough statistics on any longterm polyamory households. I am sure they are out there, but because these people are so secretive explains why there is a lack of data. I am not endorsing this. But you will hear more about it, just as you heard stuff years and years ago about homosexuality. Can you picture years later when you are a great-grandma and your great-granddaughter has a girlfriend living with her and her husband that you really wonder about? You might think "ewwww", you might think "cool", you might think "whatever", or you might think "I don't want to know"................ Often, I am an oxymoron and will think of all these things before coming up with the conclusion that "I don't want to know, it's their business"........................................................................................
I personally believe in total monagomy.
If you want to know more about the subject of polyamory:
CLICK HERE ........................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................

Wednesday, December 17, 2008

Writing Erotic Short Stories

If this is your first blog you are reading, I want you to feel free to consider posting articles or comments. Please let me know your interests and if you would like to just join in for the passion of writing about erotica. I know most of you just read, and this is okay, but I would love someone who wants to add to what this site is about. You already might know that this blog is just beginning. You already can get a feel for the easy tone of which it is supposed to be....Yummy loving and hot steamy relationships...December is a busy month, so look forward to hearing from you in the New Year....Hugs...

Sunday, November 9, 2008

Masturbation Edging For Men






"Edging" is orgasm denial, thus the lengthening of the time you can masturbate. Ultimately, it can help you prolong the sex act. Under this subject, there is Kama Sutra and Tantric Sex under different headings and other things which can sound too technical. You can do this later, if you wish, as these are good to read and know. But you really do not need technical jargon to learn masturbation "edging". All you need is the desire, simple as that.

You must practice your breathing and climax holdback to the best of your ability and creativity. It is very likely you might be surprised when you learn this, just by practice alone. I do not recommend either too tight a grip or too often, as this has been reported to be habitual and you do not want that. There is also some talk about men who, upon learning to edge can end up preferring it. At this they can therefore have problems climaxing when with a woman, which is a big no-no, as after she is pleased fully, you must shoot the rocket! As you know, if you did not climax with a woman, she would think something is terribly wrong and might be very offended.

In addition to having learned edging you can also use cockrings once in a while. I personally prefer the leather snap ones as you can take them off easier without hurting the cock. Go to www.toysforsquirts.com searchword "cockring" if you need this.

The GREAT side of this would be to make your woman BEG you to stop, a big plus and relationship builder if you are with a woman of strong libido. She will want to love you forever.
By the way, the best lube is Vegetable Grade Coconut Oil from any health food store. Do not use with toys or condoms. It does not go rancid for years and just keep it cool or in the frig. Also is very good for the skin and hair (hot oil treatment). You can mix it with lotion and make stroking "fart" sounds on your cock, if this type of kinkiness turns you on. Shhhhhh, we won't tell anyone. Your secret is mine and ours !!! ........................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................

Thursday, October 23, 2008

Chronic Masturbation Society

Chronic Masturbation Society needs any and all of your help with this blog. Send any input and writings you have for building relationships, human sexuality, and socio-sexual trends. Also sexual-humor will be considered. No porn links, please, just erotica only. ........................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................

Wednesday, October 22, 2008

Image Issues












Women know this fact that a man can be butt "ugly" and think he is "Mr. America", whereas a woman will scrutinize her own looks. Yes, even many a man will tell you that alot of men look in that "magic mirror". Once in a while you will see a woman that is over 200 lbs who will consider herself BBW (Big Beautiful Woman) instead of badgering herself daily. There is something to be learned there. Long as one is not conceited, looks are fine, but even without them, it is great to have others who give us that needed "boost".
A reversal of society trends via the often CRUEL MEDIA is now putting more demand that a man also not have a big gut and that he have gorgeous looks. Why? More purchasing power from women and gays forces marketing demographics to show sexy male models. You will see more and more of this subtle "mind-programming of male imagery" to endorse products. And while even though turnaround is fairplay, our image in love, relations and our most private parts must be built-up to think we are "more than enough" for our mates. When you look at your mate, look at them as if THEY are already in that magic mirror, if you can be so kind. Pay compliments to one another!!! And when a woman puts on lingerie, regardless of her weight, do pay attention. These things are very, very special to the woman as she really wants you to be "eyeballing" her, being she is your woman!!! Men, add to the fun by dropping something on the floor and bendover in skimpy underwear, but if you don't think she notices, make jokes like "I saw you looking at my butt!"......Making one another laugh and building each other up is crucial in the world we are living in ........

G-Spot Stimulation

I have been contacting the developer of this youtube video regarding their educational materials. They have some very good "points".....mmm g-spot

Sunday, October 12, 2008

Visualized Throbbing - Self Hypnosis



This is a practice for erotic stimulation prior to doing anything else you might want to do sexually. It can be developed to happen during sex as well.
And as with most things, while it is neat to do when alone, it is even better to have someone else's hand. Sit back with your eyes closed and do long, deep breathing out of your nose for about 5 minutes. Then go back to regular relaxed breathing.
While you breathe deep, grab your crotch and just hold it. Visualize heat going into your crotch. Then focus on a throbbing there. Think of it throbbing harder and harder until you feel the tingling, tickling and/or throbbing "sensation". Assuming you know how to make your private muscles move in and out, you can then combine these movements to add another feeling to what you are doing.


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Monday, September 29, 2008

Give The Best Oral Sex To Your Woman


For those that do not know, it brings back an animalistic human kink when you drool while doing oral on your mate. Develop the experience to be as if have not eaten for weeks and are so starving that you are about to beg her for the nectar. As you get her wet with her own juices, you also drool and make a big mess as you lick up and down, round and round. At this, you have figured how to make both hot air or cold air with your mouth on this wetness. The hot or cold air combined with lots of wet drool and pussy juice will make her climb to that higher plane with you. Also, unknown to most people, if you can play the trumpet, or figure out how to vibrate your lips like that, it will be OH MY G............SPOT!! You can also make vibration by moaning. People LOVE moaning !Do not for a minute think of just technique or "work", but only think on savoring the moment and experience of delight as you moan along with her. Lick that clit as you finger her. Grab her hips or ass and rock her body in your mouth.

The Female Climax


The female mind is the greatest enemy to the female climax. We are used to worrying, we are used to nurturing, we are this, we are that. When I was younger, I used to take forever to climax until I mastered ............masturbation. I used to think it was a thing other people do and that the man should do it all for me. Then while few men could last as long as it took me to climax, I learned that the only way to achieve the upper levels of climax would only happen by lengthening the sextime. This was only possible by masturbation. Another way was if the man was willing to put on a strapon or play with me with his fingers, his mouth and my toys.. then f-king me as much as he could ! So many of us do not explore our bodies to our full potential. But as women become more knowledgeable about these things, knowledge is power. While alot of men will hate our prowess, there is many more that will begin to WANT to please us as well. After all, many women have spent their lives pleasing their men. When it is ALL for them and none for us, many have become bitter in their relationships, enduring infidelities, etc, etc.... All this with many who have not experienced the most wonderful ability a human being can have, which would be to climax in different levels..... with the person who is supposed to care about them the most. The freeing up of the mind frees up the body, then the freeing up of the body frees up the mind. Yes, for women it is a "Catch 22", but totally achievable . So darlings, find your spots, and find the amount of pressure each part of you likes. Play with waterguns and toys in the bath, view erotic parts of movies which really get you going, etc, etc. Dear women, do ANYTHING to stop THINKING about anything but the touch, the touch, the touch, the touch, the touch.... Breathe deep, practice deep moaning, maybe 2 glasses of your favorite drink, anything to free you. No worries, just your sweet two-lip, a flower in the field, blowing in the wind, so delicate, with you touching and "nurturing" it to make the nectar flow......Oh, and hopefully your honey bee will be right there !!!!! ................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................ .........SO HOT TO VIEW LIVETV AND THE PEOPLE MASTURBATING ON THIS SITE !!

The Secret About Men And Cybersex












....................So, you caught your man doing cybersex? Oh, how awful to not have otherwise known this. But the fact is that this is very very common for men to sneak something. They always had SOMETHING they had to be able to sneak for eons of time. Perhaps your new naughtiness can prevent it? Well, only time will tell........ Due to the fact I do various affiliate work regarding the adult industry, I had to become aware of the dilemna of women who know their men are viewing cybersex. Many of my women friends have confided in me regarding that this is a breach of trust within their relationship. While I agree, that while it is often viewed as distasteful to most women, it may help some of you if you view the other side, if this is at all possible. In any event, if my mate was viewing porn and said that they weren't, he probably would wake up with both his eyes and balls GLUED to the ceiling.....Girls, even Lorena Baboon would have nothing on me! There is a popular thing online known as live peepshows via live webcams. Just like the porn movies, most people only care about making the money for their performance. Taking your man is usually not in their agenda. It is visible in their demeaner, being it is hard to find one who knows how to respond. And alot of the women that respond are in a fancy "bedroom" cubicles with someone else typing for them. Many are not poor or needing USA men, even though they might be in 3rd block countries. A majority works for studios with studio bosses. Not exactly glorified, but it feeds whole families. On your man's side, it is purely mutual masturbation. Therefore, the man who does this never thinks he is cheating. However, without you, he IS cheating with his eyes. Believe me, I completely understand your anger. I would not allow this myself. Meanwhile, other than this you really love this man and will either keep him or kick him to the curb. If this is the only thing he ever did to hurt you, should you allow him his little ritual...... known as the "escape to the den" thing? Some will rather not know if he is doing this. After explaining what it is to some of my friends, they decided they would rather not know any more than what I told them. Either it would hurt too much or they understood it for what it is. Others will become spiteful and try to get back at their mates. I can offer you a possible antidote to the whole thing. Go to the same place you caught him on and PICK a female or couple YOU like. Viewing a guy alone will give your guy a taste of his own medicine, but could make things worse. Keep that in mind. Just simply find someone you LIKE, then re-introduce both you and your guy to partake in this. It also might suit you better to make sure he knows that he is only allowed to see who you agree he can see. If not, then he must let you see a guy you decided on. Oh, and due to the typically stronger male urge, many many guys do live sexcams for free ( few women do it free) at http://www.adultspace.com/ To control this matter in a more effective way, you might do well to find if this cam-person or couple has their own site. Make sure they use ccbill and epassporte. If not using these places, there is a possibility of ID theft. Also make sure it is never a "cheap-priced show" site, as many of the cheap sites come and go very quick, often taking the cash and running. Make sure it is a bigger company that has been around for a while. Chat with each camhost and see how they feel to you. Personally, I prefer an "indie" camhost, that works out of their own home. If both you and your mate keep it as a business matter with PROS then YOU know where YOU stand as a woman.
S-h-h-h-h- don't tell anyone, but I have alittle voyeuristic secret ! .. !..! And I know this is going to sound weird, especially for me. A funny thing is, I am totally straight but like watching a woman do herself, so go figure! I had experienced women in my earlier years and am not even bi-curious. Just there is something about the taboo of getting caught and the "mutual" voyeuristic, anonymous, and safe cybersex thing.






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