Image Issues

Women know this fact that a man can be butt "ugly" and think he is "Mr. America", whereas a woman will scrutinize her own looks. Yes, even many a man will tell you that alot of men look in that "magic mirror". Once in a while you will see a woman that is over 200 lbs who will consider herself BBW (Big Beautiful Woman) instead of badgering herself daily. There is something to be learned there. Long as one is not conceited, looks are fine, but even without them, it is great to have others who give us that needed "boost".
A reversal of society trends via the often CRUEL MEDIA is now putting more demand that a man also not have a big gut and that he have gorgeous looks. Why? More purchasing power from women and gays forces marketing demographics to show sexy male models. You will see more and more of this subtle "mind-programming of male imagery" to endorse products. And while even though turnaround is fairplay, our image in love, relations and our most private parts must be built-up to think we are "more than enough" for our mates. When you look at your mate, look at them as if THEY are already in that magic mirror, if you can be so kind. Pay compliments to one another!!! And when a woman puts on lingerie, regardless of her weight, do pay attention. These things are very, very special to the woman as she really wants you to be "eyeballing" her, being she is your woman!!! Men, add to the fun by dropping something on the floor and bendover in skimpy underwear, but if you don't think she notices, make jokes like "I saw you looking at my butt!"......Making one another laugh and building each other up is crucial in the world we are living in ........