"Edging" is orgasm denial, thus the lengthening of the time you can masturbate. Ultimately, it can help you prolong the sex act. Under this subject, there is Kama Sutra and Tantric Sex under different headings and other things which can sound too technical. You can do this later, if you wish, as these are good to read and know. But you really do not need technical jargon to learn masturbation "edging". All you need is the desire, simple as that.
You must practice your breathing and climax holdback to the best of your ability and creativity. It is very likely you might be surprised when you learn this, just by practice alone. I do not recommend either too tight a grip or too often, as this has been reported to be habitual and you do not want that. There is also some talk about men who, upon learning to edge can end up preferring it. At this they can therefore have problems climaxing when with a woman, which is a big no-no, as after she is pleased fully, you must shoot the rocket! As you know, if you did not climax with a woman, she would think something is terribly wrong and might be very offended.
In addition to having learned edging you can also use cockrings once in a while. I personally prefer the leather snap ones as you can take them off easier without hurting the cock. Go to www.toysforsquirts.com searchword "cockring" if you need this.
The GREAT side of this would be to make your woman BEG you to stop, a big plus and relationship builder if you are with a woman of strong libido. She will want to love you forever.
By the way, the best lube is Vegetable Grade Coconut Oil from any health food store. Do not use with toys or condoms. It does not go rancid for years and just keep it cool or in the frig. Also is very good for the skin and hair (hot oil treatment). You can mix it with lotion and make stroking "fart" sounds on your cock, if this type of kinkiness turns you on. Shhhhhh, we won't tell anyone. Your secret is mine and ours !!! ........................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................
